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Sunday, February 18, 2018

Kind Deeds Making the Internet: #6

Happy Chinese New Year to everyone who is celebrating! A happy belated Valentine's Day to all as well, regardless of whether you are single or attached - all we need is love, right? Here is this week's round up of cool people doing kind things.

Sunday supports
Dr. Kathrin Höppner, an Air Chemist in
Queen Maud Land, Antarctica © WMO retrieved from UN.org
International Day of Women and Girls in Science took place last Sunday. According to UN Women, the day is "an opportunity to take a stand for women and girls in science and to break the stereotypes that hold them back. Bridging the gender gap in science is vital for achieving sustainable development...although science-related fields are critical to national economies, most countries have not achieved gender equality in Science Technology Engineering and Mathematics (STEM)."

The annual Show of Hearts Telethon on Global BC also took place last Sunday, in support of Variety - The Children's Charity, raising nearly $5.5 million for children in need across British Columbia.

Matters of the heart
The 2018 Women's Memorial March on Valentine's Day marked the 26th consecutive gathering held to honour the lives of missing and murdered women and all women’s lives lost in Vancouver's Downtown Eastside. As put by the Annual Women's Memorial March website: "The first women’s memorial march was held in 1992 in response to the murder of a woman on Powell Street in Vancouver. Out of this sense of hopelessness and anger came an annual march on Valentine’s Day to express compassion, community, and caring for all women in Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside, Unceded Coast Salish Territories." See coverage from this year's march on The Georgia Straight and CBC News British Columbia.

© Travis Lupick, The Georgia Straight

Living the Olympic Philosophy
The PyeongChang 2018 Olympics are in full swing. The philosophy of the International Olympic Committee's Olympic Movement, as summarized by Scholastic, is to develop "good sportsmanship, sense of fair play, and respect for fellow athletes" and, through sport, teach "men and women of different races, religions, and nationalities to work peacefully together in competition toward common goals." It is in this spirit and philosophy that one story stuck out for me this week, given our current times - one of a Russian luger offering an athlete from the United States the use of his sled.

Florida
Finally, last week's tragic events in Parkland, Florida have been well covered on the internet and through traditional news outlets, with many comments offered via social media. Regardless of your position, let's recognize and remember people like Aaron Feis, the football coach who died shielding students from bullets, and survivors speaking truth to power and calling for change - including students like David Hogg, Sarah Chad and Carly Novell, among others.

Enjoy the remainder of the weekend.

About Kind Deeds Making the Internet
Each Friday (or so), I will post highlights of cool people doing kind things that popped up in the news or in social media that week. Hopefully this will be inspirational in helping us all think about who we would like to acknowledge with gratitude, kudos or thanks. For future weekly highlights, be sure to send me anything you think would make for interesting reading.

Saturday, February 17, 2018

Snow Grateful

Having grown up on the Canadian prairies, I am no stranger to frigid weather. That said, having now spent nearly two decades (!) on the temperate west coast, I feel no shame in opting to curl up under a cozy blanket versus heading outside when even a hint of snow is in the forecast.

Thank you, today's snowfall warning, for giving me a guilt-free excuse to stay home. Today's "me forecast": blogging, internet surfing and television watching.

© weather.com

Monday, February 12, 2018

Finding Common Ground in Canada

Credit: CBC News Business, 2018
The past couple of weeks in Canada have been polarizing. From escalating action over pipelines in British Columbia and Alberta with Prime Minister Justin Trudeau taking heat in Nanaimo, to racial tensions in Saskatchewan coming to the forefront following the Gerald Stanley acquittal in the shooting of Colten Boushie, one could be forgiven for thinking our country is imploding.

In a Creative Mornings talk given in Vancouver last month, journalist Erin Millar of Discourse talked about the media's role in creating anxiety. She asked the audience to raise their hands in response to their individual levels of anxiety: "Who generally feels like they're not feeling anxiety right now? What is wrong with you? Have you been paying attention?" After briefly describing the threats of global warming, leaders who are "increasingly hate-filled, racist, authoritarian" and the threat of nuclear war, she asked again for another show of hands: "Now, everyone. Are we feeling a reasonable amount of anxiety?"

Screenshot of Erin Millar © Creative Mornings Vancouver, 2018
Spend too much time looking at the news (like me), and it all starts to feel like we are on a fast moving train that has lost control and will leap off the tracks at any given moment, ending in a fiery, bloody crash. How to stop this derailment? How to disembark from this train without disengaging one's self from current affairs entirely?

I've worked professionally in engagement in one way or another for the past decade or so, which has led me to believe that collaboration is always the answer. Engagement is "any process that involves the public in problem solving or decision-making and uses their input to make sustainable decisions" (International Association for Public Engagement (IAP2) Foundations in Public Participation, 2016). Good engagement processes force people to think about the values of others and in what areas common ground is shared. But is there a point at which engagement cannot be successful? After all, as put by Tony Seskus in a recent CBC article about Trans Mountain: "Such polarization makes collaboration hard to accomplish."

True, perhaps. But a recent study suggests that Canadians are really not so polarized when it comes to heavily politicized topics. Research in 2015 by Université de Montréal political science professor Éric Montpetit and co-authors Erick Lachapelle and Simon Kiss was undertaken to combat the perception that "interregional disagreements in Canada are harmful to policy-making and policy acceptance" due to the fact that Canada is one of the most decentralized federations in the world, creating a lack of cohesion when it comes to national and provincial policy decisions. In other words: provinces may be seemingly pitted against one another due to their competing interests and cultures, but the researchers found this is not the case.

The methodological approach to this research encompassed questions related to multiple areas of controversy: immigration, oil pipelines, balanced budget, highway tolls, unions, the gun registry, religious symbols, militaristic foreign policy, oil [tar] sands, policy power, workplace safety and abortion. These areas were then reduced to three primary values held by Canadians:

  • Egalitarianism: social justice and equality in society; 
  • Traditionalism: traditional organization of society; and 
  • Legal rigorism: the rule of law for everyone and respect for authority.

© Institute for Research on Public Policy (IRPP), 2017
It's among these values that the research suggests that while, on the surface, we appear to be so divided, underneath it all we do share common ground - maybe not in exactly the same ways, but overall on important issues and definitely across all five regions included in the study. When it comes to policy, the researchers contend that, if culture is equal to values, then there is more that unites us than divides us. In their words: "Canadians’ differences over values have a considerably greater effect on their public policy preferences than does the region where they live." Therefore, "policy should be designed, framed and promoted to appeal primarily to values, not to regions."

Isn’t that reassuring? To know that we, as a nation, generally value the same things? I must admit, when I first heard this information I was skeptical. “No way," I thought. "There’s no way this is true.” Sure, there are drawbacks to every methodological approach. But when I think about this research in the context of friends who live in Alberta and Saskatchewan, I obviously know that my friends and I share the same values even though we live in different parts of the country. But then factor in how things are presented in the media, and Erin Millar's observations on how current journalism is designed to keep us in fear in order for news outlets to stay in business, and it becomes less murky as to why we might feel estranged from each other and divided on what's best.

We may be literally spread far apart, which lends itself to thinking that our regional interests keep us far distanced from each other ideologically. But it behooves each of us to remember this research. And to think about these words by author Matt Haig: "Be nice to other people. At the universal level, they are you."

We're all just people. At the universal level, we are all the same. We care about the same things, even though it may not seem like it at particular points in time.

So next time you come across an internet troll, or someone on social media spewing opinions you just cannot agree with, remember this blog post. Remember that we, as humans, do share the same values - even if this can be hard to recognize. I, for one, am grateful for opportunities where we can collectively find common ground. I only hope that we don't give up on ourselves.

Sunday, February 11, 2018

Kind Deeds Making the Internet: #5

Happy Family Day long weekend to those in British Columbia and hope everyone else is having a nice Sunday.

This week's Kind Deeds Making the Internet has a bit of an activist bent to it. Change doesn't come without hard work and sacrifice. Kudos to these troublemakers for making a difference.

Fighting rental evictions together
CBC British Columbia wrote this week about the Vancouver Tenants Union: a group formed last spring in response to increasing numbers of renters who fear being evicted or priced out of their homes - sadly, an unfortunate reality in Vancouver. According to the story: "The group's membership has grown to nearly 1,000 people across the city...[and] has rallied around some tenants facing eviction over renovations and successfully helped them keep their homes."

100th anniversary of women's right to vote in the UK
Celebrations took place to recognize women gaining the right to vote in the United Kingdom 100 years ago. This was a result of the Representation of the People Act, which was passed on February 6, 1918 but came after much campaigning by suffragettes - many of whom were were jailed while fighting for the right to vote. See a summary of coverage available on Twitter Moments, and select opinion pieces on BBC NewsThe Independent and Cosmopolitan UK on what remains to be done.

© C-SPAN
Nancy Pelosi, the House Floor and American DREAMers 
Democratic Leader of the U.S. House of Representatives Nancy Pelosi used her "one minute" provided to her as House leader and talked for eight hours and seven minutes, urging Speaker Paul Ryan to ensure a vote to protect DREAMers - young undocumented immigrants who arrived in the United States as children. DREAMers had been protected from deportation under the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA) program, but the program was rescinded by Attorney General Jeff Sessions in September of last year. See Twitter Moments for highlights from Pelosi's filibuster-style speech.

Maclean's at a higher price point for men to reflect pay gap between men and women
Canadian news magazine Maclean's provided this week's issue with two separate covers and at two different prices - one at $8.81 for men, and the other at its regular price of $6.99 - to reflect and bring awareness to the 26 per cent gap between full-time wages paid to men and women in Canada. The $1.82 price differential will be donated to Indspire, a Indigenous-led registered charity that invests in the education of Indigenous people - a group for whom the pay gap is most extreme.

© Indspire

That's it! Go forth and shit disturb for the greater good. 

About Kind Deeds Making the Internet
Each Friday (or so), I will post highlights of cool people doing kind things that popped up in the news or in social media that week. Hopefully this will be inspirational in helping us all think about who we would like to acknowledge with gratitude, kudos or thanks. For future weekly highlights, be sure to send me anything you think would make for interesting reading.

Sunday, February 4, 2018

Kind Deeds Making the Internet: #4

To make the task of compiling Kind Deeds Making the Internet easier for me each week, I make sure to immediately take note when I come across a nice piece of news, or mentions on social media of humans being good. On the flip side, while searching for these positive stories, I can't help but notice just how many negative stories are out there as well. I haven't kept a running tally, but if I was a betting person I would not be surprised if someone did an analysis that revealed a monstrous number of bad stories over good. I mean, how many times have you ever thought we lived in The Bad Place or the Darkest Timeline??

That's why I think this weekly round-up - and 12 Months of Gratitude, in general - are so important. I'm a few days late with this post (I try to summarize and post on Fridays), but I'm still blogging about what I came across this week because it's hard to feel good about the state of the world when the scourge of humanity get all the airtime. Here are a few snippets for us all to reflect on what "being human" should really mean.

Screenshot cred: Sophie Grégoire Trudeau on Instagram,
February 1, 2018
Businesses tackling the stigma of mental illness
The annual Bell Let's Talk campaign took place last week, which aims to bring awareness to issues surrounding mental health and, in particular, to promote "mental health awareness, acceptance and action built on...fighting stigma, improving access to care, supporting world-class research and leading by example in workplace mental health." Many folks in Canada contributed to the conversation; see this handy compilation by Bell of what Canadians had to say about mental illness.

Google has also been doing its part to involve others in conversations around emotional distress, and has created a Made by Google video campaign, drawing on the experiences of real people, to promote the work of the Suicide Prevention Lifelife.

Inspiring others in art, life and wellness
When music producer and DJ J.PERIOD was just a young man, he wrote a letter to Wyclef Jean of The Fugees to debate the meaning of one of his lyrics. To the young man's surprise, Wyclef not only responded, but actually called J.PERIOD to have a discussion. As put by J.PERIOD: "It was an unbelievable act of generosity from a superstar. The conversation lasted nearly an hour. I was floored, even more by what came next: a lyric on The Score dedicated to the Kid. I was just a fan, and the fact that Wyclef went so far to bless me will never be forgotten." Years later, the two met and rehashed the experience. For all the details, check out the story on Twitter.

Screenshot cred: Bob Harper on Instagram, January 24, 2018
It shocked many when celebrity fitness personality Bob Harper had a heart attack in February 2017. Thankfully, he survived and has been sharing his experience to help others in their own personal health journeys. He's written many books about health, and #twocupsin is only one of his latest initiatives to provide tips and advice on living a healthy life. Check out the episode on managing stress which aired last week. See the first ever clip where he explains what #twocupsin is all about.

Helping those who need it the most
The Sunday Edition on CBC last weekend aired a story about a post office for the homeless in Montreal, Quebec, Canada. This post office was created by volunteer and Canadian immigrant Bin Wang at a community organization called Le Sac à Dos, and provides mail slots for people with no fixed address, who would have no way to receive mail otherwise. The story comes in at about five and a half minutes, and is a great listen for anyone needing a boost of faith in humanity.

Research conducted in 2011 and 2012 showed that more than one million Canadian households were either moderately or severely food insecure, meaning that they were sometimes uncertain of having, or being unable to acquire, enough food to meet the needs of everyone in the household - including children. A petition was started last week urging the Canadian government to implement a national anti-food waste law, "requiring that all supermarkets give unused food to foodbanks...It is doable, and it is already being done in communities worldwide." See highlights from News1130 on this movement to reduce food waste.

Locals helping locals
And finally, a story for those in Vancouver. Patrons of restaurant Café Medina will be glad to know the establishment has dropped its "no reservations" policy for the month of February in support of the BC Hospitality Foundation (BCHF), a local non-profit charity that provides support for individuals within the hospitality community who are coping with a financial crisis arising from a health or medical condition. The "Front of the Line" Fundraiser asks guests to make a $25 per table donation ($35 on Saturdays and Sundays), with 100 per cent of proceeds donated to BCHF. Read SCOUT Magazine's story for all the details.

That's it! Hope you're all making the most of your weekends. Be good to one another.

About Kind Deeds Making the Internet
Each Friday (or so), I will post highlights of cool people doing kind things that popped up in the news or in social media that week. Hopefully this will be inspirational in helping us all think about who we would like to acknowledge with gratitude, kudos or thanks. For future weekly highlights, be sure to send me anything you think would make for interesting reading.